At work there's a woman I like a lot, does she like me?

Most of the time when I randomly look up i can see that she looks at me and smiles, she also smiles a lot to me when I pass by or say hi. Also some days ago we were standing in office ready to have some tea, suddenly she noticed that I was beside her and she looked at me, smiling, and then quickly looked away again. Also she leaned towards me a bit.

Another thing: We recently got a new assignment so we would move around alot in office. Me and my mates usually sit on the desk next to the window, pershaps she knew this so she went there (I took the chair beside her), and she smiled and looked at me.

Basically I feel that she likes me... Is it true?

I feel she's kinda shy, should I make the first move? Just ask her for some private time (or wait for it) and then tell her I like her? What should be her response if she likes me?

It sure seems like she likes you ... about 99% sure ... she seems to be going through a lot of effort to show you she does.

You can't wait around expecting her to say something though, especially if she's shy. You just have to take the bull by the horns and start a conversation soon, or she may think that you aren't interested in her.

Don't overthink this, just start a normal conversation with her about anything ... work, activities, etc. then LISTEN to her and respond. Just try to be casual and "normal," your interest will be enough at this point. Don't try to be "cool" and don't profess your undying love. Make a friend first, the rest will follow in due time.

If you get on well, ask her to do something together. If she likes you too, you will have a new girlfriend!

Good luck.

Carl.

(08-27-2009 09:45 AM)sweetiebabylove Wrote:  You can't wait around expecting her to say something though, especially if she's shy. You just have to take the bull by the horns and start a conversation soon, or she may think that you aren't interested in her.

Well her interest isn't so sudden, in fact I've noticed it for about 5 months... But I haven't been too interested in her until now. So it wouldn't be better just telling her that I like her (since I know 99% she likes me)?

Well do you believe in a woman making the first move to a man?