We're going to be celebrating out 3 year together at the end of this month. I have a great gift for him (for those who remember it is the boudoir photos which are sexy shots of me half naked). But I don't just want to do the gift. I want to make him the happiest man on earth. Well he claims he already is . I want to blow his mind (in bed).

So I usually do the dress up thing. But should I do lingerie? Something kinky? Role play? Bring out the whip (yes, literally- for him to use on me)? Dominatrix? Some sexy fishnets? A lace nightie?

Do men like romance? Is candles, wine, and a joint (hehe, yes we like to have an occasional smoke) be too corny?

I also have a chocolate body paint thing going on... nay? yay?

I could bring out some toys? Nothing too kinky just a basic vibrating cock ring, tasty lubes...

I could to a whole strip tease/ lap dance thing?

I know it varies for all men of course but I'm down for some thoughts and suggestions. Mostly from men themselves but if you ladies have a trick that worked- bring it!

Like you pointed out all guys are different....all of that sounds good to me really...except candles...I could care less about candles.