I'm looking for some wisdom on procedure regarding ex's. I have a best friend (for now at least) that seems to think it's ok to pursue ex's that have dumped me or other close friends of mine and his. Keep in mind these were all painful breakups. He claims to me at least that he is only attempting at friendship; but his past motives would suggest a hidden agenda. (*coughBOOTY*cough) Now, if he had consent of whatever friend it concerned, that would be ok I think. However he is currently doing it to me without consent and also did/attempted it to some of the others behind their back. I've calmly, yet very firmly spoken to him and told him that it's dirty playing considering we're all supposed to be tight. I have not *yet* told the guys he did it to that don't know. He very rudely rejects the idea of asking first, telling me to "grow a pair because happens". For me, it's not quite as much the possibility of him succeeding and getting with the girl as it is his "winner take all" attitude. So my question...how far should I take this? Am I being overdramatic or do I have a legit concern here? I just find it offensive that he seems to value his next girl fix over keeping the peace with his pals.