How to Touch a Guy

Did you know that as a woman you have great ability to make a guy feel good in general, and good about you, just by touching him? There is a kind of electro-chemical action that takes place with a person's touch. A gal's knowledge of how to touch a guy in the right way is going to be one of her most important skills in the dating game. Here are some steps to help you:

Concentrate on being a good conversationalist first before you think about touching him, when you are meeting a guy for the first time. This involves listening to what he is saying, making eye contact, and not interrupting him. However, conversation is a two-way street, so you should respond to what he is saying, and then he should respond to you, and so on.

Know that all guys are different individuals, and the places you touch will be different, but there are some areas that are common for all males.

Think about touching him, if he begins to look like a candidate for continuing study. Start off by touching him lightly on the elbow every once in a while, as you talk further with him.


Do not overdo the touch routine with someone you just met. Over a period of days or even weeks, touching him will become more natural--both to him and to you. Once you have established a friendship with a boy, then you can move into higher levels of touching.

Touch a guy in the back of the neck or the ear for a very powerful effect. (Look at the tips and the video below).

Touch a guy on the chest, the side by his ribcage to really generate a vibe.

Rub up against him. As you are standing, make your thighs lightly touch him to send an impulse or rub your butt up against him as you go by saying "Excuse me". This last point works well when in a crowded room.

Come up behind him, once you get to know him well, and put your arms around his waist and press your body into his.

Put your arm around his waist as you walk together side-by-side--another way of touching.

Hug him, for the full front-to-front, total-body touch.

Hold his hand. If you are at the movies, drape your arm on his side of the arm rest and he will probably get the idea.

Don't use nails, unless you are comfortable with him enough to miss. Guys love it when you stroke his neck and hair. also enter the package through their clothes. that really is going cousin layers of clothing found in the way of what could be. but only if you intend to go further. if not, your mockery.

Touch in general is a very important component of our development and overall well being, we never stop needing it. It is nice to feel someones love through a gentle caress. It can be very soothing when one is stressed. It can also be very healing when a person is sick.