Just how can a guy go about seducing women? Figuring out effective seduction tactics can be very stressful, especially if you try too hard or you don’t try at all. A guy who tries too hard to seduce women, will be rejected; if he won’t take the risk at all then he won’t get any dates. So what exactly can a regular guy do to start seducing women?

Instructions

Step 1

Start with affection. When you feel affection for a girl, show it and let her know. Do your best to be emotionally available to her and without holding back. When you think about romancing a girl you are conducting the most natural form of seduction and it will show in your actions.

Step 2

Let your touch linger. Any girl who feels comfortable with you, will let you share hugs and hold hands with her. Try to let your touch linger an additional few seconds more before you let go. These subtle touches will keep her curious and soon, she’ll follow your lead. Physical closeness encourages and promotes sexual tension, the good kind.

Step 3

Avoid sending mixed signals. Stay consistent with your approach. Smile every time when you look at her. Women, just like men, don’t like getting rejected and if your target isn’t sure about how you truly feel, she won’t take risks.

Step 4

Look for telltale signs of seduction from her. Perhaps she is trying to seduce you but you are too busy trying to learn about seducing women that she’s getting exhausted. Seduction is always a two-way process, so be alert, look around calmly and take notice how women are trying to woo you also.

Step 5

Get help from music to finish the job for you. Get some music she likes and put it on the next time she comes to your place. Make a CD for her with the music she likes and prepare a romantic dinner for her. Dress up and do some ask her to dance in your living room. Music will always set the mood and can make her feel at ease and lower her inhibitions.

Step 6

Seducing women means seducing her thinking as well as her senses, and this includes her sense of smell. Try not to approach a woman while you’re sweaty and smelly. A pleasant smell will activate a certain state of mind that will get her in the mood to make love. Many women don’t like cologne and prefer the clean smell of a sporty soap, you can also light scented candles. Women love the scent of lavender, which is a natural relaxant.
Have her feed you finger foods. Many women shift their gazes from your eyes to your lips; this is a good sign because it’s absolutely seductive. Women’s active imaginations and lip play on your part will get her fantasizing about being more intimate, such as kissing. Another great food to help with this are dips and chips so you can lick the dripping sauce off each other’s fingers.

Step 7

My final tip for seducing women requires much needed privacy along with scented oils. Don’t be shy giving her a massage, starting with her hands. Always notice her mood and comfort level, make sure you stop when you sense that she doesn’t want you to go further. If you play your cards right, she won’t want to resist a relaxing massage from someone who cares about her.