I would really appreciate any advice people could give me. I am an early 30 something male. I have a son and recently broke up with my gf about a month ago. I am definitely no longer interested in my ex gf and fell out of love with her way before we even broke up. It is like we were together, but only because we didn't officially breakup.

Anyhow, there is a girl at work that I am interested in. We have a lot in common, email back and forth and sometimes chat online. Here is the problem. She has a boyfriend. However, she shared with me that she is not very happy with him. I don't know if she will breakup with him or not. My goal is not to get involved with someone who has a bf. In addition, she does not know I broke up with my gf. For some reason, I just didn't want to tell her yet. Some of the reason that I didn't tell her was that I just didn't want to share this with a lot of people, even her. I can't really explain it.

Anyhow, I am not sure what to do? I kind of what to let her know I have feelings for her. But at the same time, I don't want to come across as a creep. Someone who quickly broke up with his girlfriend and now wants to be with her. Also she does have a bf, so it might be weird. What should I do? Should I ask her to hang out, but as friends only? Should I say something like I really enjoy your company and wish to spend more time with you? Right now, I haven't said anything. I don't want to mess up. It's hard for me to have these strong feelings and not be able to share them with her. I feel like I could mess up a good friendship and also hurt my credibility.

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