Hello all,

Here is the situation: I went on 4 dates with this girl. The last one was our Valentines Day celebration. We went to a beautiful dinner on the Hudson River with a view of the NYC skyline. She later told me that it was the best Valentines Day weekend ever!

We average 1 date per week (usually Friday nights), but during the early week she never wants to hang out. It seems like she is limiting me to only 1 day per week.

So far its been about a month... We have not kissed yet. When we are together it is comfortable and conversation is good. I believe she is interested in me, and I am certainly interested in her. I want to kiss her, but I am just not getting that feeling that I am welcome to kiss her.

Should I talk about it with her and see where we are headed in a relationship? Just wait and "I'll know when the time is right?" Or should I just assume that she wants to and give her a kiss?

One girl once told me a story of a guy who "stole a kiss" from her, and I do not want to do the same thing. I want to feel welcomed to kiss. How do I go about gaining that "invitation"?

Thank you!