hey guys so i was having a very intense make out session with my girl yesterday and i started to kiss the area between the shoulder and the neck. when i did this she said it felt amazing and i could tell she was really enjoying it since she started breathing heavily and she began holding me tighter....so i was wondering if there are any other places where most women love to be kissed. i want to make her feel amazing when we are doing this again.

There is no map that spells out how women like to be touched. Each woman is different and has her own experience when she is touched. What IS important is your desire to find out what turns each individual woman on. But this is also a two-way street.

Women need to tell their men what they want. For example, I hear countless men complaining that they have no idea whether or not they're pleasing their partner because she 1. doesn't tell him, 2. makes no noise or gives no physical/verbal indication that she's satisfied.

I also hear men complain about the fact that they feel inadequate when a woman has to tell him what she wants. If this is you in any way, GET OVER IT. You learn by being open to suggestion and constructive criticism. If you're doing something and she's not feeling it, she has every right to tell you. Not berate you, but gently guide you in the right direction. If you don't let her do this, she will shut off and begin looking for someone who can.

Play with the woman. Be gentle and soft. For me, I'm all about the feather-light stroking. My skin is super sensitive so if any guy wants to rub my back, I'm down. Same thing with the neck-shoulder spot. Drives me wild. If your woman doesn't want to talk about what turns her on or guide you, you're kind of at a loss. No one reads minds and you shouldn't be expected to.

A kiss is what everyone needs to practice. Lips - of course, have to be first. Kissing on the lips is the most common places to kiss, and it is usually the first time most people when they start kissing. Men should keep in mind, sloppy, wet kiss not a kiss, most women enjoy. This is the usual way.