about 6 months ago i met a man i thot was really great. he wasnt anything special to look at, but he was smart, accomplished-kind of a renaisance man. but he wdnt give me the time of day. i'm pretty good looking and smart, but he was totally turned off by me, i think because i was riding a scooter, not dressed so well, etc. i think my chains and helmet image got to him and he ignored me like trash.[he made me feel like i must have had something disgusting on my face and i had to keep checking]
recently i ran into him in an art museum. i was dressed nicely, had heels on etc, and he didnt recognize me. this time, he's hanging on my every word and acting like i'm the most desirable woman on earth. he calls and emails that he wants to go out with me.
while i still think he has those same qualities that i admired in him when we first met, i cant get over how badly he treated me the first time because i didnt fit his image. it bothers me that he is so superficial that he made an instant judgement of me based on my kind of rough appearance the 1st time and didnt listen to a word i said.
sd i go out with him? or sd i cut him dead, the way he did to me? actually, i've decided on the latter. but what do you think?